Relationship

caution: LOOOOOOOOOG Post.

My friends like to ask me about my relationship, on how me and my bf get along together, about how I treat him, about how he treat me, about how i look at this relationship ..etc etc..

Close friends of mine, they see me as a very obedient gf. They say i always stick with bf, always put him as no.1, seldom hang out with them. Yes, i am.

Being obedient, is just that, i dont normally reject him. I want him to be happy. I know whatever he choose to do, he sure do consider my feelings, then only he will make the decision.

No, I am not lazy to make decision. Hope YOU understand.

I like to stick with bf, I like to make him as my first priority (besides family), i seldom hang out with my friends unless some occasions like birthday. And I dont see anything wrong with that.

Off coz, they think it’s something wrong. Some say, “You are losing yourself, you lose your freedom.”

Did I?

What about I say, I love being with him, I dont like to reject him, I like to do things together with him.

I still have freedom, a lot of them. My bf is not a control freak. He never stop me from meeting new friends, going out with guys, or hang out till late with my jimuis. I knew it very well. Trust is crucial in any relationships.

I think you see the point now, I sayang him.

Just like how people like to say, “He very sayang her gf, he gave her everything, he company her all the time, he pick her up and down, he never reject her, he is just so good to his gf. I’m so envy”

How come some of them did not say the same thing to me? I mean, i m not angry la. They rather say, “You are losing yourself” instead of say “You are so nice to your bf.”

Why people only see “Yor, her bf so sayang her.” Why no one say “His gf so sayang him.”

I’ll be happier if you really see it. If you dont, never mind. I dont need people to judge whether I am happy or not.

My best friend say “I dont know if i can do the same to my future bf or not”

My friend, “Just be yourself, dont force yourself to do something which you are not happy to do, there is no exact formula to develop and maintain a relationship.”

What if …
my bf and I did not work out at the end … what do i do?

I never foresee things will turn out that way… Why do i need to think about something that is not happening?

I never know? Yea, you never know it too.

Or
How do you know if he is the best? You got no one to compare …

Hmm… What about - “How do you know the next one or future one will be the best? What if they are worst?”

One of my friend also labelled me as “Never accept other’s opinion.”

haha, it’s ok. I am a person like that. I listen, but i am not necessarily accept. I got my own opinion too. Takan i need to listen to other people to tell me what I shud do in my OWN relationships.

I often accept people’s opinion on other things, like food, movies, fashion, my designs, my writings, my hairstyle…

I must stand strong for my own. Afterall, this is my own thing.

Or
How do you handle argue/fight?

Oh, i seldom fight with bf. I dun like to argue with bf actually. Will try my best not to fight over unnecessary matters. If i can accept his opinion, i dont need to argue.

Ok, then HOW do you handle argue/fight?? You haven answer la wei…

Oh.. ok ok.. I mean, i will keep quiet at first. No point to heat up the matters and maximize the hurt. When things past, then only we can talk caml-y. If things are my fault, i got no point to argue, right? If it’s his fault, he also got no point to fight, right? So, why argue?

Argue over different opinion? Hmm… Sure got lo, but wont end up argue-ing la.

I really scare people angry with me, i wont be happy also, especially people who close to me.

Or
Do you feel bore being with him?

Why would I feel bore with someone I love? :)

Dont get me wrong in any part of my write up, I am happy with what i am having now. I am not unhappy with anyone also.

As you can see, the whole thing is about how I look things, How i feel. Not comparing with anyone or anything.

What’s my point of writing this?

Haha, do i need one?

Because i wanna write.

So, now you know me better. I m kinda stubborn, coz i am a taurus. Ho ho ho.

Phew, what a long post. Wondering how many people would be reading till the end.

p/s: Dont worry peeps, my bf and I are good.