What is your priority?
Your health or career? Your health or study?
This two got me thinking a lot. Why my friend chose the other one over their health? When my friends told me about it, I am so worry about their health, but they rather delay the body checking and settle their jobs & exam first.
“Aiyah, after exam only I go body check lor”
“I concern about my job more than the health problem I have.” (after listening to your health report, I am relieve, you can concentrate more on your job.)
I am not trying to say they are wrong, they just put the priority to other party first. Not to say they have serious health problem also. They got me thinking, if I were put in their shoe, what would I choose? I probably thinking the same. Settle my exam first, or settle my job interview first, body check later.
Some people tend to procrastinate till the opportunity is gone, the time is limited.
I suppose we always think, “we are still young, still got time for everything.” “Cheh, I am so not look like sick cat, never mind, don’t worry. Nothing really went wrong. Just that I always headache and sometimes nose bleeding. Exam is more important now. I must concentrate on exam. I cant screw up my paper. Parents will kill me.”
I am really worry about you (you know who you are), yes you are young, but you really cant afford to lose your health. Please do a body checkup ASAP. If you screw up your paper, try again next time, wont die one. If you don’t love yourself, do it for the one who loves you. If you think ‘they’ don’t care, do it because a lot more people care about you. Headache and nose bleed sound so serious.
What’s lucky? I am glad that they share their worries, they did not keep it to themselves, else they will get depression!
Brennan
on June 2nd, 2007
The last sentence is well said. And after being in a hospital twice within one month, health is definitely a top priority!
Freethinker
on June 2nd, 2007
It is easy to say when you are young, health is important but not priority… if in the case of nose bleed and headache… it should have the check up…the sooner the better
Monkey
on June 3rd, 2007
relationship is an equal responsibility.. dont say u care or dont care anbout yrself.. lets say wat happened if the girl who married u will have to become a widow or .. one day? u r so selfish to let this happen to a someone who loves u or.. to whom u said u love him/her.. no excuse as u knew it would happen but u were like couldnt be bothered..
i dono yr case.. but im a married person.. my advice is go check up ur bardy… fair to yrself..yr parents.. ur wife or husband.. yr children …( in d future)
ha.i even forced my hubby to quit smoking after maarr~y
cely
on June 3rd, 2007
Brennan: Thanks. Hope you get well soon.
Freethinker: I thought so too.. everything is easy to say.
Monkey: Yea, you are right. As i said, if they dont do it for themselves, do it for the one who love them. I guess they will get it. Hope they get well soon.
belle
on June 3rd, 2007
T T … i think yr fren will goto body check up asap..
and yes they might have die if they don share their problem..
lastly..they r lucky to have a fren like u..
cely i love u
narrowband
on June 3rd, 2007
Yea lor I also think I will postpone body-check if got exam or other day-to-day priorities. We are so used to paying attention to these day-to-day priorities, so it’s abit difficult to move away from them (just) for a body check. But then it also depends on the severity of the health condition… headache and nosebleed like quite scary lo. Should go see doc la of coz! Can’t postpone!
agnesw
on June 3rd, 2007
Human are stubborn or sometimes just feel that we are all lucky so there won’t be any bad luck thing happen on us.
zen
on June 4th, 2007
Then i go body check up lor. Havent do any body check up in the last 10years.hehe
cely
on June 4th, 2007
belle: hahaha.. u! Hopefully my fren really go do check up soon la.. dun just say say onli
narrowband: yealo… my last body check was last year. still okay gua.. :p
agnesw: ahhaa.. “i don look sick ma, no need to go check one”
zen: wah.. ur engine all still workable or not?