Mummy I wanna paktor!
In the MRT, around 3.30pm.
me (whisper) : “psst, look at the couple behind”
Hongkiat: “Wah, like conjoined twins!”
Me continue ’spying’ on them. They hold both hands as if they are lost for 3 centuries and finally found each other, therefore decided to hold hands tight and never let go each other. Look again, it’s BOTH HANDS oh! They really got all my attention till they get down the train.
They both look like they are age around 13-15. I thought their uniform is primary school uniform. But after asking and checking around, according to Caker’s friend, is confirmed that they are secondary school student.
I know this is quite normal, I know I sound old-fashion, I know I know. But if they are my brother sister, I seriously will scold them ge lo. My brother is now 14 years old and I am worry if he also become like that. It’s okay if they are good friends and like to hang out often, but not to the extend of paktor lor. They might not be mature enough!
They have a lot curiosities that might lead them to ‘another level’. I read a lot of news about those young parents abuse their children, abandon children and cannot take care of their children. That’s really sad. It’s not something we wish to see. But who to blame when they started paktor so early? If you pressure these kids, they will runaway from home. Haih. Too many issues involved here. I also dunno where to start and which to discuss.
I embedded one video here, quite an old news. I am sure many of you watched this video before. A 15 year old girl had sex with 13 different man for more than 300 times just to have a baby. Wondering why she never pregnant when she had sex more than 300 times, sound ridiculous! It might not very much related to what I said above, but somehow it related. Oh yes, she is 15! haha.
Tell me what will you do when your 13-15 year old sister/brother started to paktor.
p/s: My brother is quite shy and homely. He stays home a lot and only follow my mom. I am positive that he is not a GAY la.. Okay?
clement
on July 29th, 2007
spying on ppl… ewww…
ha ha, i was 10 when i started paktor, but without the knowledge of my family… ha ha
wuching
on July 29th, 2007
good leh..start them young!
Justin Koh
on July 29th, 2007
First time posting comment here.
I started when I was 17 and my girlfriend was 14+(not yet 15 years old birthday) and we are still going strong after all these years (I am 24 this year and she is 22). We are even talking about marriage, but becuase of money, we still have to wait.
Not all 14/15 years old are air headed. Anyway, If my bro or sister pak toh at 14/15, I wouldn’t disagree, nor would I agree, just let them expore themselves. They should know the consequences when going to the “next level”
cely
on July 29th, 2007
clement: aiyaya, clement boy… so naughty, din even let mommy daddy know~.. hmm
wuching: I dont know, but i wont agree.
justin: Good to hear that u are still going strong with ur gf. Not every kid think mature.
“they should know the consequences …. ”
I tell you, most of them know but still doing it. The consciousness are too low. You dowan to see them end up as young parent who cant even take care of themselves. Necessary attention should be given to them~
HuiLinG
on July 29th, 2007
if i found out my kids paktoh so early, i think i will buat taktau, den start to ’spy’ them, see who is their ‘fren’. then try to ‘councel’ them its no good to paktoh so early… blah blah blah.. if they cant listen wat im saying, i terpaksalah teach them how to use condom~
sinv
on July 29th, 2007
Terpaksa teach them how to use condom?lolx
Cely i agree with u, I think those people who Terpaksa to move on to the ‘next level’ often regret when they are getting mature later…
thiamhin
on July 30th, 2007
it’s a very personal thing when someone decide to start dating at young…
i started rather late…started when i have my voting right…
it’s best to be mature in handling things…
cely
on July 30th, 2007
huiling: wahahahaha… ur opinion is out of my expectation, but it’s good. Really need to teach them the correct way of using condom.
sinv: exactly, so many news, so many movies are about the similar issue. but things still happen over and over again.
thiamhin: yea, it’s personal. But if it happens to my family, it’s not really personal liao. If your brother/sister become young parent at age 16, tell me what u think? :) Still their personal thing? They have so much to learn and no time to learn but they already picking up another status, becoming parent. I cant imagine that kind of life.
Just trying to prevent things becoming that way. Not to say it’s bad, but the responsibility is totally diff.
andylkw
on July 30th, 2007
errr…*sit on the fence and watch all the arguments* hehehe.
Ting Tit Lei
on July 30th, 2007
if they are my kids i will break their fingers one by one and then proceed to strangling them with their own intestines. haha =D
yipguseng
on July 30th, 2007
wow! wont they feel very uncomfort holding both hands like that while sitting?
if i do really has a bro/sis like this, i will lecture him/her gao gao!!
zewt
on July 30th, 2007
i think i am ok with it… if it’s a brother. but if it’s a sister, then i think it will be complicated… haha.. yeah, i am bias. dont have the chance to view the video… at work.
clement
on July 30th, 2007
last time i didn’t manage to see that video.. now i see.. whao.. it’s really daring… why do they need to say it in tv show instead of her own home? ha ha
cely
on July 30th, 2007
andy: *stare at andy*
ting tit lei: u sound cruel~ keke
yipguseng: i also dunno. they really funny lo, holding hands like that. :p
zewt: ahahaha, i worry also if my brother started paktor now. He is onli 15. even my sister 23 now, so many guys aftering her, i also worry.. dunno why.
clement: yealo, she so daring, almost sound ridiculous.
-=SiN=-
on July 30th, 2007
the pic look like a couple of kid lari rumah oo..
paktor early good or not i also dunno.. but end of day.. guy always ‘untung’ nia :X
Yatz
on July 30th, 2007
uik..Huiling also got read Cely’s blog wo..chadou..
well..i started during Form 6..
honestly before that, i’m quite scared of paktor..maybe i seldom go out..so dunno what to do if i were to paktor..LOL..
but hey, i alredy got girls from Primary 6 liked me when I was still in primary 5..and i’m from all boys school..muahahahaha *devilish laughs*
yung .
on July 30th, 2007
My love life started when i was in form 5, and it was normal, not as bad as you thought. I think we know how to control.
Btw you so suei loh take pics while ppl are sleeping like don’t know what.. lolz
cely
on July 30th, 2007
sin: hahah, so u untung or not last time?
yatz: primary school already got ppl admired ah… so geng~ :p
yong: f5 is still ok, but not those from f1, f2 lo…
they sleep also hold both hands.. this is really something funny ma :p
agnes
on July 30th, 2007
They will get my attention as well if I was on the train…I ever see foreigners kissing when waiting for the MRT…Kissing like nobody is around them…haha
thiamhin
on July 31st, 2007
i have no objection to ur comment
Friedbeef
on July 31st, 2007
Wah that video is insane
cely
on July 31st, 2007
agnes: Haha, i also saw the local one kissing in the train.
Thiamhin: :)
friedbeef: Yea, plus ridiculous~
MonkeyWong
on July 31st, 2007
Kissing in public is fine for me, but not for those aged around 13-15, too young!
Can’t stop young guys paktop nowadays, but I think proper sex education is important indeed! Before, they produce something by the end of the day….. :P
Bengbeng
on July 31st, 2007
true love is so romantic :)
cutebanana
on July 31st, 2007
too bad i never had the chance to pak tor when i’m still in school,now working liao got no time to pak tor…. :(
cely
on July 31st, 2007
monkeywong: how to consider proper? haha. maybe parent should be the one who teach…
bengbeng: eh… u mean they true love? I hope so.
cutebanana: wah, no time to paktor? must be millionaire la u…like that no need to worry no girl friend :p
Reon
on August 1st, 2007
Our world advancing everyday, the kids also! LOL! Now they get handphone earlier, speak vulgars earlier, paktoh earlier, have sex earlier… I wonder will they die earlier too?? =P
I think they need guidance, be it mentally or physically. If you’re their elders, just try to let them know the consequences and all the possibilities loh. It might ruin their lives if they don’t handle it well. Still, it’s down to the couple on how they run their relationship. It might be good, it might be worse…
Cely got good sniping skill anyway! Ownage! xD