Cely 完美的一天

The bus journey

I’ve been working for more than 5 years in Singapore. I can’t remember when was the last time I took a bus to workplace.

Now I am assigned to this project, client’s place where I can take a bus to. The bus journey was short and sweet. It merely takes about 30 minutes. I have been taking the same bus (the number) at the same time for over few weeks.

I must compliment the bus system here is organized. I have an app in hp which I can check buses that will stop at this bus stop, the arrival time of each bus, and the route of the bus with the bus stop name. The time arrival is almost accurate. I love the app!

I spent most of the time reading novels, checking fb and now I might have enough time to blog. Well provided that I have a seat. :)

I enjoy the quiet moment that I have. It’s not as crowded as mrt. Not squeezy.

The forgotten blog

It has been quite a while since my last post. I noticed that my blog is being flagged to have malware by google.

I just did an wp update to the latest version, realized that I haven’t done that in ages. I also marked all the stupid comments as spam. What else can I do to have the malware warning removed?

I’ve been sharing most of my happy and unhappy moments in Facebook, where I can choose people who can read what I shared. At least I think it’s within my control. Unlike the blog where it can access by public.

Anyway, maybe I’ll just share whatever I think it’s fine to be shared here. I hope people who read will stop picking on my grammar mistakes. I no writer okay.

Lets promise myself that I’ll document down my future trips in this blog again. I miss reading back my trips. I have travelled on few trips that I did not blog about. I hope I can remember it by just looking at photos.

I am not sure what is this entry about, but it was something came across my mind as I am typing.

Off to sleep now.

Lastly, lets end the post with a pic. A novel that I’ve just finish reading it. Love how the thrill the story is. . Recommended!

Life as a mom

I would say I enjoy it a lot. I am happy that I can see, play, feed Blair everyday I come back from work.

I have great help from my mom in law who gave up her job at KL and take care of Blair in Singapore. Besides taking care of Blair, she also take care of everyone in the house.

I will take over mom in law’s job whenever I can, ie: after work, weekends and public holiday. I don’t really have much time to be with Blair after work because she sleep pretty early. She also need to divide her attention to other family members like her aunt and uncle who come back from work to play with her.

Good thing about it is Blair grew happily under good care and lotsa love from many people.

Blair brought bundle of joy to the whole family. Especially HongKiat. Another soft side of him in front of Blair. She always put a smile on HongKiat’s face. It’s heart melted moment when she always call him ‘Papa’. Even I will jealous of him sometimes (actually most of the time).  Not to say she doesn’t call me, but not everytime she sees me.

Besides being a mom after I go back home, I still go outings with my friends whenever possible, play iPad games. Many times, I still went drinking and movies with HongKiat (after I put Blair to sleep). Well, I heard voices saying I live like no kids and always so free to do own things, I don’t really take this statement as compliment. It sounds like I did not do my job as a mom. Like I leave everything to my mom in law. Maybe I think too much, but sorry I don’t like that statement.

I do have a lot things and thoughts to share in my blog (I have my trips in draft), but I need to learn to talk less and not to share all my happiness in public. People do not enjoy and actually hate my good life. Even this is my own blog. I have enough nasty comments from everywhere.

Don’t tell me “friends and enemies don’t need explanation”, sometimes friends don’t think the way we thought they are thinking, you will need to explain yourself if you care. It’s tiring but you still need to explain if you care. Does not matter who you explain to. It breaks my heart to have know about friends who actually hate me for my good life. I thought I am sharing my happiness, but they think I am just showing off. I learnt from past experience.

I am still a happy person, I know. That’s all that matters.

Blair at 8 months old

It has been 3 months since last post. I’ve been lazy to update my blog. Was away for almost a month for holiday.

Anyway, Blair has been growing well. She achieved a few milestones as expected. She can now waves bye bye, nod her head, starting to crawl on four, eating more solid food, grow some teeth, sitting unsupported for more than 30 mins.

Her social skill is great too, she smile to strangers, wave goodbye also. She expressed that she is excited to see me home by a big smile and running fast with her walker to the door. She always smile to her daddy whenever she sees him.

Tried 3 times feeding her potato and she will have red spots on her face. We conclude that she is allergy with potato. Will try again when she is older.

Blair is 5 months old

Time flies. Blair is already 5 months and 1 week old. She has been growing pretty good. Although she can be quite fussy during feeding, but she is still a happy baby.

Regarding her fussiness, I guess it was because she is ready for solid food. I’ve read somewhere about how to tell baby is ready for solid food. One of signs is baby will be curious bout what we are eating, she will eye on our rice bowl. Very cute!

She has been drinking lesser since 2 weeks ago. Sometimes she was not drinking milk for at least 3-4hours, and drink as little as 3oz after that. My mom ask me to introduce solid food to her.

So I decided to let her start with the rice cereal. She seems happy eating the cereal! Was worry that she will reject at first.

Besides drinking less during day, she is now kinda rejecting any feed during midnight. I m kinda worry that she did not have enough milk. I must ask doc about this during next check up.

Should I be worry when she drink less and still happy?